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Tea on the Lily Pad

"Come sit on the Lily Pad and spill the tea."

Hosted by Bre & Jay

Real conversations about lesbian and LGBTQ+ life — relationships, culture, community, and everything in between.

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Featured episode
Relationships

EP. 47

When Love Gets Complicated: Navigating Relationships After 40

We sit down and get real about dating, long-term partnership, and what nobody tells you about love in your 40s and beyond. Honest, warm, and a little messy — just how we like it.

58 min
EP. 46Community

Building Found Family: Community in the LGBTQ+ World

44 min

EP. 45Success

Career, Ambition & Being Out at Work

51 min

EP. 44Dating

Dating Apps, Dating Culture & The Modern Lesbian Experience

39 min

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Tea on the Lily Pad is a space where lesbian and LGBTQ+ women come to feel seen, heard, and a little less alone. We talk about the things that matter — love, identity, family, friendship, success, and the beautiful, complicated reality of living authentically. No scripts. No filters. Just tea.

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